{"id":2077,"date":"2022-11-23T09:32:49","date_gmt":"2022-11-23T09:32:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/uus.islam.pri.ee\/?p=2077"},"modified":"2022-11-23T09:32:49","modified_gmt":"2022-11-23T09:32:49","slug":"kulas-kaimine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/uus.islam.pri.ee\/?p=2077","title":{"rendered":"K\u00fclas k\u00e4imine"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Moslemid on igati julgustatud \u00fcksteisel k\u00fclas k\u00e4ima, et s\u00f5prussidemeid tugevdada. See on eriti t\u00e4htis \u00fchiskonnas, kus pole palju moslemeid. Moslemi\u00f5dedega kontakti hoidmine tugevdab&nbsp;<em>imaan<\/em>i. Paljud \u00f5ed, kes abielluvad ning j\u00e4\u00e4vad koduseks (lastega v\u00f5i ilma), v\u00f5ivad end isoleerituna tunda, kuniks nende abikaasad on t\u00f6\u00f6l. Seega on soovituslik \u00fcksteist k\u00fclastada, kuid on ka asju, millega seejures tuleb arvestada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Esiteks ei tohi s\u00f5bralik l\u00e4bik\u00e4imine koduseid kohustusi h\u00e4irida \u2013 hoolitse selle eest, et kodus oleks k\u00f5ik korras (ja seda s\u00f5na otseses t\u00e4henduses), enne kui lahkud. Kui su kodus valitseb kaos, \u00f5htus\u00f6\u00f6k perele pole valmis ja vabandad end sellega, et olid h\u00f5ivatud seltskondlike kohustustega, on aeg uued prioriteedid paika panna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Teiseks, k\u00fclastus ei tohiks kujuneda snooblikuks teise \u00f5e kodu inspekteerimiseks, et kriitilisi v\u00f5rdlusi teha. Alati on inimesi, kes on rikkamad v\u00f5i vaesemad kui sa ise, seega austa oma \u00f5de ja seda, kes ta on, ja \u00e4ra kritiseeri tema kulunud vaipa. Kui juhtudki \u00f5de k\u00fclastama, kui ta kodu on sassis, siis selle asemel, et teda kritiseerida ning taga r\u00e4\u00e4kida, k\u00fcsi endalt hoopis \u2013 ehk on ta tervis korrast \u00e4ra? On ta v\u00e4sinud? Masenduses? V\u00f5ib-olla sai ta oma kolmanda, neljanda v\u00f5i viienda lapse v\u00f5i oli hoopis haiglas? Parem v\u00f5ta ise tolmuimeja ning aita \u00f5el tema kodu korrastada!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kolmandaks on tagar\u00e4\u00e4kimine ja niisama t\u00fchi loba islamiga vastuolus, seega,&nbsp;kui oled k\u00fclas ning k\u00fclaliste p\u00f5hiteemaks on mitte kohaloleva isiku kritiseerimine, on parem p\u00fcsti t\u00f5usta ja lahkuda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kokkusaamised on alati positiivsed, ent\u00a0need ei peaks mitte kujunema kohviklat\u0161iks, vaid teenima islami kohaselt selle \u00f5ppimist ning selle \u00fcle arutlemist. Ebaregulaarsetel kokkusaamistel on parem Koraani v\u00f5i midagi muud \u00f5ppida, nii et k\u00f5ik koosolijad \u00f5ppimisest kasu saaksid ning seda naudiksid. Kui kokkusaamisel on lastega emasid, on see hea v\u00f5imalus emadel omavahelisi kogemusi ja n\u00e4pun\u00e4iteid jagada, samuti islamlikke laste laule \u00f5petada. Neid saab n\u00e4iteks\u00a0<em>eid<\/em>i pidustustel laulda, et lapsed t\u00f5elist\u00a0<em>eid<\/em>i pidu tunneksid.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Moslemid on igati julgustatud \u00fcksteisel k\u00fclas k\u00e4ima, et s\u00f5prussidemeid tugevdada. See on eriti t\u00e4htis \u00fchiskonnas, kus pole palju moslemeid. Moslemi\u00f5dedega kontakti hoidmine tugevdab&nbsp;imaani. Paljud \u00f5ed, kes abielluvad ning j\u00e4\u00e4vad koduseks (lastega v\u00f5i ilma), v\u00f5ivad end isoleerituna tunda, kuniks nende abikaasad on t\u00f6\u00f6l. Seega on soovituslik \u00fcksteist k\u00fclastada, kuid on ka asju, millega seejures tuleb arvestada. 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